I have your nudes and everything needed to ruin your life. This chilling message was sent to Evan Boettler, a US teenager who believed he was communicating with a young girl but was actually targeted by a cyber-scammer. The sextortion threat was immediate and terrifying, leading the 16-year-old to take his own life within just 90 minutes of receiving the message.

Sextortion—sexual extortion—has become one of the fastest-growing online crimes, primarily affecting teenagers in the US and Europe who are manipulated into sharing intimate photographs or videos under threat of exposure unless payment is made. Evan's mother, Kari Boettler, reflects on her son's vibrant personality, how he enjoyed outdoor activities and sports, yet fell victim to this devastating crime.

Investigative efforts revealed that the scammer had left behind an IP address linked to locations in Nigeria, a known hub for such online crimes. Within the Nigerian context, “Yahoo Boys,” young men often in their 20s, perpetuate these scams, driven by dreams of fast wealth, often desensitized to the harm they cause their victims.

What was initially depicted as an isolated incident has unfolded into a deeper understanding of organized operations across Nigeria, which involve gang structures and the pooling of resources to maximize profits from scams.

With social media companies under scrutiny for not doing enough to protect their young users, the case of Evan Boettler has become emblematic of the widespread vulnerabilities teens face in the digital age. Despite Meta's recent claims of action against sextortion rings, the Boettler family’s struggle for justice is still fraught with barriers, raising questions about accountability in the digital landscape as these scams continue to thrive.